Dating is pretty complicated for most of us but shy guys probably have the worst problems with it.

First of all, let’s bring you some comfort; it can be fixed. You can overcome your problems and enjoy dates like everyone else.

The most important thing to do is to fix up the image of women you created in your head. They are just people.

So if you can approach another man and make new friends, you can approach a girl as well.

The first step you should take to overcome this is to find a female friend. Approach someone you don’t find romantically attractive.

Your friend might put you in situations where you will hang out with her female friends and that will be great training.

Soon enough you should build some confidence and be able to function well on a real date. It’s normal to be nervous so don’t start to panic.

If your date notices that you are extremely nervous it won’t be a problem. In case she thinks that is a problem, well, you two obviously aren’t a match and you can just move on.

Shy guys have one great virtue; they are great listeners. Everybody loves listeners.

For that reason, your date might open up to you more than you expected. That will automatically create some sort of bond between you two.

Until you find your perfect date, you should focus on what you are good at. It doesn’t matter is it a hobby or a job, it just needs to be something that makes you fulfilled.

Don’t force yourself to find love but relax and work on other parts of your life. You could find your date literally anywhere.

You might meet her on your way to work or with an online dating app. Embrace your shyness because that is a part of your character.

Don’t try to change the way you are because only if you are honest you can expect from your date the same.